My wife and I had a few days to getaway and decided to checkout Nashville. I put together a few notes of what was great for us in case you are considering a visit Nashville is fun even if you aren’t a hard core country music fan (we aren’t), however if you detest country music that may lessen some of the fun I’ll recommend.
Where to Stay…
If you don’t mind dumping $200 a night the Opryland Hotel is very nice, has beautiful indoor gardens (but overpriced food). If you plan (and you should) on visiting the Opryland theater it’s practically in walking distance (they have buses or you can drive). The hotel even with conferences going on and the CMA music festival starting didn’t feel overwhelming – probably due to the size. It is the largest non-casino hotel in the Continental United States outside of Las Vegas. Rooms were immaculate and nice, service great. It was nice to get away from the city and have a place to hang out – if you prefer to spend most your hangout time in a honkeytonk bar stay downtown Nashville for sure. If we went back we’d probably stay downtown or at a B&B near the city (but we liked Opryland).
Coffee…
If you like coffee you must visit Barista’s Parlor. It’s in an area outside downtown in an old commercial garage. Don’t let the location or lack of signage from the road deter you – it’s one of the few coffee shops I’ve ever visited where all the employees were passionate about coffee and I’ve never witnessed such meticulous preparation (even in my own kitchen). The espressos are sweet and flowery and the coffees are not dark and full bodied but I think anyone would enjoy them. The strawberry waffles were quite good (both times!). I tried to visit Crema but they were closed … looks like a must-try. 
What to See…
I’d start my trip to Nashville with a tour, and I’d HIGHLY recommend the …. Walkin’ Nashville Tour I’d facebook message Bill after you sign up and ask him for any great local shows going on – he knows the best (and sometimes free) unique shows. There is a segway tour also but a lot more pricey and probably not as colorful as Bill’s tour. If you have time get a tour of the famous Rayman auditorium – it’s a corner piece of the town and country music (Bill takes you there but not IN on his tour). The replica of the Parthenon in Millennium Park is worth checking out. It’s $6 to go inside but well worth it IMHO. A wide angle lens would be nice for the inside. We saw the famous “Grand Ole Opry” show and it was quite a fun experience. Go ahead and bring your flash camera and check StubHub for tickets if sold out.
Food….
I’d try Puckett’s and go about 7ish so you can catch live music that starts at 7:30. We hoped to try Loveless Cafe (outside city) but was too far and heard of long waits – maybe next time. We had a lunch at Jack’s BBQ which was a local “dive” which was just “ok”. It can be hard to get into places that are popular so I’d recommend not flying it by the seat of the pants (which we did). Try for reservations and ask when live music starts.
It seems a lot of things have activity Tuesday, Fri, Sat night. Many places in Nashville seemed closed Monday. I probably wouldn’t do a Wed/Thursday visit personally. We did a Mon-Wed visit and it was good we had Tuesday!